When people speak of having kids, they say things like:
"Kids will change your life."
"Your life will never be the same."
I never thought such statements were exaggerated. I really did believe that my life would change. I didn't want to have kids, in part, because of such statements. I figured the little comfy life I had carved out for myself would be demolished and turned upside down, and I'd spend the rest of my life suffering in agony if I had kids.
I was partially correct. My life has been turned upside down. The other parts aren't really so true for me. In fact, I love having a daughter. I've changed in many ways. I feel like I've gotten to refocus my life. I'll admit, I'm selfish in nature. Having a child around really makes selfish nearly impossible. Having Scout around makes me want to be a better me. Moreover, I see things, people, experiences differently now that I have a kiddo. I mean, it does give you a different perspective.
Basically, stuff that seemed cool and important before, just sort of fades in it's splendor. It's weird. I'm 30 something. I'm a mom. Man, my life has totally changed. I'm going to try to stay stupid and immature, but sometimes it is hard.
3 comments:
Sometimes cheesy is good. I think you nailed it right on the head. Well said my friend.
Having babies makes me feel guilty for not thinking other people's babies and kids were cute and precious *until* I had one of my own.
And now I think babies and kids are cute.
And it makes me appreciate Mom way more than I ever did before. Even on the concept of diapers alone.
Thanks Charlie. Being a mom is a lot of work, but the rewards are wonderful. Especially having super daughters like you and Aurora!!!
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